“The Bar is So Low” is something all single men have been hearing in recent years - and honestly I find it gaslighting.
Would love to know what “low” means?
As a guy 29M, I feel like I’m putting in the effort planning all the dates, making an effort when texting, and generally have my life together (career, health, hobbies etc.) - but when I actually try to plan a date I get ghosted.
I was chatting with a girl friend of mine who told me she gets 20 likes every single day on Hinge, I’m lucky if I get 20 matches every 3 months…
Of course there are lousy men out there, but really feels like women are lying to us and themselves about how low the bar is - for men it’s never felt higher. Of course women will be more selective, but is their abundance of choice killing the dating scene?
Would love to know thoughts of other men/women.
